Word to the wise, wait a day or two.
This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone.
They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date.
No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature.