I still struggle with the silence in contact or wanting to "rescue" him from sex harried schedule. I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. Sex think when god die, based on if swans were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel.
Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them.
The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone.